Valentine's Day Gift Ideas
Score some extra points this Valentine's Day with gifts to bring you closer together both emotionally and physically. We have put together this Valentine's Day gift guide to give you some ideas on how to make this the best Valentine's Day ever.
Sex Toys to Enjoy Together - Couples Vibrators
There have been great advancements in sex toys over the last few years. New sex toys that are designed for couples to use together while making love enhance the experience for both partners and deliver earth shattering orgasms that were so elusive in the past.
The top selling couples vibrator available today is the new We Vibe 3. The We Vibe 3 is worn by the woman and vibrates against the g-spot and the clitoris simultaneously during intercourse, stimulating both partners. It is waterproof and has a wireless remote control letting you adjust the vibration easily without interrupting the action. The We Vibe 3 provides consistent stimulation regardless of the sexual position since the woman wears it. It is made from medical grade silicone making it extremely hygienic and durable while still being flexible and comfortable. The cordless charging system of the We Vibe 3 is state-of-the-art. Just place the We Vibe in the cradle along with the wireless remote control and both are charged cordlessly through induction.
Another popular couples sex toy is a vibrating cock ring. Worn by the man, the stretchy cock ring is placed around the base of the penis and around the testicles. Vibrating bullets are generally located at the top of the cock ring allowing stimulation to the clitoris during face-to-face intercourse. Clitoral stimulation is not the only benefit of a vibrating cock ring. Cock rings restrict blood flow in the penis allowing longer lasting erections and also help to keep the testicles from retracting prolonging ejaculation. Since cock rings restrict blood flow, they should never be worn for longer than 30 minutes.
Remote control vibrators are also popular since they allow control from a distance. A pair of remote control vibrating panties can really liven up a night out on the town. Imagine dinner at a elegant restaurant while you silently control her stimulation from across the table with the wireless remote control! Feeling really naughty? Hand the remote control to a bus boy and ask him to hit the button when he walks past!
Sexual Gifts for Her
OK guys listen up. Vibrators are not the enemy they are your friends. Vibrators are not going to replace you, they will help you. Vibrators enable women to get comfortable with their bodies and learn what makes them orgasm, and the more comfortable they get, the easier it will be to orgasm when they are having intercourse with you. Do you see where I am heading? The more they orgasm with you, the more they will want sex with you. The more they use their new vibrator, the more they will want to have sex with you. Buy your loved one a new vibrator, encourage her to use it and thank me later.
Now that I have you thoroughly convinced that she needs a new sex toy, you need to find out what kind to get. Sex toys for women are comprised of four different basic styles with a lot of variation between them. The four basic styles are: vaginal penetration, clitoral stimulation, anal penetration, and nipple stimulation. Many sex toys fit into only one of these style categories, but others fit into more than one. For example Rabbit Vibrators. Rabbit vibrators typically have a main shaft shaped like a penis, and a clitoral stimulator attached to the shaft that vibrates the clitoris. A few rabbit vibrators also have a anal probe attached to the main shaft allowing simultaneous vaginal, anal and clitoral stimulation.
Hands down, the most popular sex toys for women are rabbit vibrators and clitoral stimulators. Most women need at least some clitoral stimulation to orgasm, and some women only orgasm through clitoral stimulation. For this reason you can't go wrong with a clitoral stimulator. Small and powerful, Pocket Rockets are fantastic clitoral stimulators. Pocket rockets are simple to use and small enough that she can use it during intercourse. There are many different pocket rocket style vibrators available, but we recommend the Original Pocket Rocket by Doc Johnson because it is well made and extremely powerful. Other popular clitoral stimulators are Butterfly Vibrators, and Vibrating Bullets or Eggs. Butterfly Vibrators have leg straps that hold it in place. Once it is positioned over the clitoris then it is hands free and smaller ones can also be used during intercourse.
Luxury vibrators are now more popular than ever. Made with high quality materials like silicone and made to be powerful and quiet. Luxury vibrators are built to last longer and have more advanced electronics in them. Some of the best luxury vibrators available today are made by manufacturers like Lelo Sex Toys, and JOpen. They have a wide range of styles, but all are meticulously made for years of dependable use. The latest and most innovative vibrator was just released by JOpen called the Intensity Vibrator. The Intensity is unique because it is a rabbit vibrator designed to strengthen the kegel muscles through electric stimulation. It might sound scary at first, but don't be alarmed, this is a revolutionary new product that is going to have women all over the world happier and healthier.
Since I brought up kegel muscles, I would also like to add that kegel exercises strengthen the pelvic floor muscles and are very important ways to prevent pelvic organ prolapse and incontinence as well as improving sexual function (think vagina strong enough to crack walnuts). For years women have been falsely told to start and stop their urine stream to exercise the kegel muscles. Doing this can actually weaken the muscles and can also lead to urinary tract infections because the bladder is often not drained completely.
Sexual Gifts for Him
Sex toys are not just for women, and they are not always used alone for masturbation anymore either. A new sexual revolution is taking place right now thanks to many mainstream magazine articles about the benefits and pleasure from prostate stimulation. The prostate muscle is located just inside the man's anus and about the size of a chestnut. It is responsible for controlling urine flow as well as the production of semen. Recent studies have concluded that massaging the prostate is healthy and can even lower your risk for prostate cancer. If that was not enough, massaging the prostate also creates very strong orgasms. The male anus has always been a little taboo for heterosexual men, but not anymore. Prostate stimulators are now our top selling sex toys for men. Get your man a prostate stimulator for Valentine's Day, re-assure him it does not make him gay, lube it up and give him the biggest orgasm of his life.
Masturbators are no longer just for men to use when you're not home. Women are starting to learn that it can be fun to use them on men. They are available in many different styles, and many different materials. The most popular masturbators are the Fleshlight masturbators, and the life size replicas. The fleshlight is a hand held masturbator shaped like a flash light. Clear ones are also available if you like to see what's going on in there. The life size replicas are molded directly from porn stars and both look and feel like the real thing.
Oral Enhancers
Don't use whipped cream or peanut butter unless you love yeast infections! There are many sexual body toppings available that taste great and vagina safe - none of them are in your kitchen. Many oral enhancers are sweet but there are also many that have mint for that cooling stimulation and even Sex Rocks. Sex Rocks are similar to the old pop rock candy that explodes in your mouth. Use Sex Rocks the next time you give a blowjob and he'll be exploding in your mouth also!
Bath & Body
Luxurious bath oils and lotions are great for the body and soul. Every woman loves a relaxing bath and the addition of aromatic bath oils and salts will leave her feeling refreshed and rejuvenated. Run a warm bath for your loved one and fill it with high quality bath oils. Let her know it is easier for you to massage her feet from inside the tub and make it a night to remember.
Massage Candles
Everyone loves a massage, especially from the person you love. Massage candles are a great Valentine's Day gift. Made with high quality soybean oil, massage candles heat up and melt at a lower temperature than normal candles so the oil in the candle can be used as a nice warm massage oil that doesn't burn the skin. A large variety of scents are available from many different manufacturers. The luxury sex toy company Lelo makes wonderful high quality massage candles that look great and work perfectly.
Sexy Lingerie
Sure, everybody knows lingerie makes a great Valentine's Day gift but don't make the mistake of spending too much money on lingerie when you can get great quality lingerie that is less expensive and sexier than the stuff you get at the mall. Most lingerie is only worn a few minutes before it hits the floor so save your money and buy sexier, less expensive lingerie. You'll be able to buy more of it and variety really is the spice of life.
Funny & Playful
Valentine's Day does not have to be flowers and candy. Have fun with it! Inject some humor in your Valentine's Day with something cute, funny or even a little perverted. Scratch cards are like lottery tickets for sexual favors, I bet you can't wait to see what you've won! Edible underwear, candy panties and bras all provide a fun way to explore each other in a lighthearted way that will make you feel like a teenager again. For the smoker in your life, we even have the glass dildo pipe that has been a huge hit this year.
Visual Stimulation
If you like your porn hardcore, we have plenty of that for you, but there are alternatives available for couples that are informative and sexually stimulating. Learn the art of Tantric Sex together, or Thai Massage techniques. Explicit, but not hardcore, these DVDs can bring couples closer together and are a perfect way to spend a romantic evening or even a rainy weekend.
Shatter a Taboo
Not adventurous enough for you? For the wild ones, check out E-Stim. E-Stim or electrical stimulation delivers orgasms by way of low voltage! With accessories available like electric cock rings, butt plugs and dildos you can try to make each other orgasm with nothing but electricity. Bondage kits can take it a step further, just don't forget your safe word! Keep going? OK you asked for it. Add in some sensory deprivation to heighten the pleasure. A blindfold works well because anticipation builds. Full hoods leave them even more in the dark and dependent on you. Time to pull out that new strap-on dildo. Happy Valentine's Day!