Step-by-Step guide for using Strap-Ons.
Strap-Ons are one of those sex toys that give a lot of room for imagination, and are perfect for couples seeking new sexual dimensions, where sky is the limit.
Who Can Use a Strap-On?
It used to be believed that strap-ons are only meant for lesbian sexual intercourse, but this could not be further from the truth. They are widely popular among homosexual and heterosexual couples who wish to experience new depths of arousal and find that sexual pleasure knows no bounds.
A common misconception is that men cannot wear strap-ons which of course is nonsense. Although it is true that some harnesses are designed with women in mind (they include vaginal plugs on the inside of the harness), there are many that can be worn and enjoyed by both sexes.
1. Choose The Right Harness For You
There are plenty of options. You can pick a thong-like harness or a jock strap, and you can also choose form the variety of materials. Surely one of them will satisfy your wishes, as well as your budget. You can see all the harness types in our Strap Ons Beginners Guide.
2. Choose a Dildo
If you are new to strap-ons, you don't want to overreact in the beginning, start small and gradually work your way up to a larger size.
3. Get Used to Your New Sex Toy
Don't worry if you don't feel comfortable right from the start. Put it on, walk around with it, wear it under your clothes if necessary. It might take some time before you really start enjoying it, but once you do you won't be able to get enough - and neither will your partner.
Another tip: the more tightly you strap the harness to your body the more sensation you will feel. However, make sure not to fit it too tightly to prevent discomfort.
4. Use Lube
Lubricant is a welcome companion to any sexual activity, and it is no different when we are using a harness. Use plenty of lube to keep your sex game smooth, it is perfect if you can apply the lubricant during playing, because pulling the dildo out can be distracting for your partner.
5. Communication is The Key
When using a harness you will not receive immediate feedback from your partner, so it is important you pay attention to the non-verbal clues from you partner, and verbal feedback is of utter importance as well.
6. Use Your Hands
One of the major advantages of a harness is that it leaves your hands free to explore and stimulate your partner's body. You can also use other sex toys, such as a vibrator, to increase arousal.
If you only follow the advice we have given you and let your imagination run free, it is assured that you will find a strap-on harness the perfect spice for your sex life.