Electrosex Guide - Estim

When thinking about sex electricity is not the first thing that comes to your mind. In fact, it sounds dangerous and painful. But is it? Absolutely not if only you use proper equipment and follow safety instructions.

Multiple Orgasms?

This type of arousal is thrilling, because it can offer multiple orgasms - something particularly exciting for men who normally cannot achieve this. EStim used to be associated with BDSM, but in recent years it has become a popular choice of couples seeking new highs and adventures.

Why Is Electrosex So Great?

Electrostimulation triggers a reaction in your nerve endings. Although you stimulate these nerve endings during every intercourse, electrosex products give a completely different, much stronger erotic sensation.

  • Your orgasms are much more intense.
  • Men can reach multiple orgasms.
  • Helps women who cannot reach the climax otherwise.
  • Stronger erotic sensation for you.

What Do I Need To Have Electrosex?

  • Control Unit
  • Wires
  • Electrodes or E-Stim Toys
  • Lubrication

Control Unit

It is the base you require to enter the world of electrosex.

Don't use repackaged medical TENS (Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation) and EMS (Electronic Muscle Stimulation) units. They were not originally designed for intimate pleasures.

Instead we suggest you buy a proper electrostimulation control unit. Nowadays you can choose from a variety of them, from very basic to advanced.

The control unit normally runs on bateries and generates 9 volts which is a safe amount of electricity to be passed through the body.

She Stim Kit


You tend to associate wires with anything but sex, but in this case they are crucial. They transfer the electricity from the power supply to the electrodes and literally bring you pleasure.

Electrodes or E-Stim Toys

Final link in your electric chain. You can use Electrodes or E-Stim toys.

Place them on different erogenous zones on your body and operate them with the control unit.

They are made of aluminium, stainless steel, acrylic or conductive silicone.

EStim toys are made of some type of metal and look really futuristic.

You can get E-Stim Butt plugs, Dildos, Vaginal Plugs, Cock Rings and other toys. They bring out what is best about the EStim. They stimulate your nerve endings more intensely than any other vibrating toys, never failing to help you reach an explosive orgasm - or more of them.

If you want to find out more about various types of estim toys, I suggest you read our special guide on selecting estim toys.


It is very important to keep your skin lubricated while you use electrosex products. Otherwise you can end up with irritated or even burned skin.

Water based lubricants are the best choice, because water is a very good conductor. Make sure to check for the thickness of your lubricant, because some lubes are not very thick and can dry out soon. The constant reapplying of the lubricant can be disturbing and annoying.

There are numerous lubricants available, but be careful that your lube does not contain silicon, because it decreases conductivity.


Absolutely, all the same some safety measures have to be followed:

  • Do not use on broken or irritated skin.
  • Proper lubrication must always be applied.
  • Always use the correct control unit, don't experiment with homemade devices.
  • Do not engage in electrosex if you have a heart condition or are suffering from epilepsy.